When I do not wear a tie, I do not wear spread or any non-button down collar. Why? Because they do not sit up on my neck and look sloppy (in my opinion). Those days are over. These little magnetized stays work so well that I bought a set for my son. He loves them too.
I ordered these for my husband for Christmas. They are exactly what he was wanting. They work great! I am very pleased with this purchase and will definitely order again.
Stiff-N-Stays Plastic Magnetic Collar Stays - 2 Pair